The chances of finding love at 60 can be difficult, especially for women. With the right approach and mindset, it can be easier to find love and romance. You must set realistic standards, not for someone who does not exist except in your head.
First thing to do is to determine the deal breakers. Here are common deal breakers.
1. Talking too much
3. No chemistry
4. Does not keep word
5. Talks bad about previous relationships
6. Drinks too much
The key is to go into a first date with an open mind. The other person is probably nervous. Plan to date a lot and do not be afraid of failure. It might take going out with a bunch of frogs to find your prince or princess. Have a positive mindset and open your mind to growth.
Men have it easier after sixty with a larger dating pool, but women over 60 can find love with the right expectations, mindset and plan. Women are like a fine wine. They get better with age. They are wiser, have more life experiences and can be fantastic lovers. Do not give up, improve yourself and date until you find the right one. Love at 60 is not an impossible dream, but takes work for a quality partner.
If you have been on your own for a while this is a good 10 point checklist to understand the needs of the other person. You don’t want to turn them off without knowing.
A real turn off is a man or woman who does not know when to take turns in a conversation. Don’t keep a one-sided conversation. Know when to stop talking or to speak up.
Mix the discussion around and don’t just talk about yourself, money, sport, children, former relationships, and family.
Silence is better than talking too much or over talking. Your date doesn’t need your life story on the first meeting.
First dates can be stressful. It’s easy to be nervous and do dumb things. If there were enough good things going on during the date, I didn’t sweat the nagging little things. There are a number of simple, maybe obvious, things everyone should be mindful of, if they hope to turn first dates into second, third and fourth ones . . . and beyond.
Like anything that’s new to you, at some point you will experience the fear of failure. Senior dating is no different. You and I both know that the things we want in life may take longer than we had hoped.
Becoming comfortable with online dating is no different. our mindset about online dating at 60, will be one reason you succeed or give up.
If you are over 60, your mindset has had years to develop and get stuck. Your age can be a limitation, but it can also be a tremendous advantage when starting something new.
Preceding the two times I seriously dated as a single woman over 50 and then over 60, I did a lot of online and real-life research about dating, relationships and love. I didn’t know what to expect or how to navigate the dating game at my age. I needed help.
Replace negative thoughts with positive ones.
When you look in the mirror, try to replace any negative thoughts that are pushing their way through like an unwanted whitehead with an affirming thought about the way you look or feel. Replace a disapproving scowl with a confident smile.”
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